What gave me my lust to bras and fashion back

After a year thinking I needed a fitting bra I read this article. And I read every comment. A day later when I was really really low I saw a pic of a guy putting bows on turquoise Betty bras for next summer. And I got instantly happy. Like from thinking nothing was fun, nothing was good I saw this guy putting bows on turquoise Betty bras and boom - instant happiness.

I then realize my clothing style my pink light strands, my pink covers and dresses is not an image. It's what makes me happy. It whats makes me happy to look at in my sofa, on my wall or on my body.

And I decided to get rid of all my tight dresses that I only bought to showcase my figure. Because they don't make me happy!

I have always been the one dressing up for men, showing off legs and boobs, because I knew how to flaunt them. And when I got a waist on top of that I wanted to show that off as well. But I've realized I really don't care anymore! Beauty for me is important, but it is a value on its own! It's not about attracting people, it's about making myself smile when I look inside my closet or put on a white or pink dress. It's about what makes me happy. It's about what makes me say to a complete stranger in a pretty skirt "I just have to tell you your skirt is really really beautiful".

But I can now go braless without anxiety, and therefore my bras now can make me happy instead of hanging there as threatening unused obligations.

And yes, I've learned to love my soft boobs.

Yes, It’s Okay to Go Braless - The Lingerie Addict

To bra or not to bra...that is the question? Is wearing a bra a matter of personal choice? Are there any benefits to going braless? Get the scoop here!

http://www.thelingerieaddict.com/2012/08/real-talk-not-wearing-bras.html

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