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Soft tissue? Melting into the bottom of the cup? IMF riding down? Wires digging in? Band digging in? I have your solution!!!! » All bra adventures

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Soft tissue? Melting into the bottom of the cup? IMF riding down? Wires digging in? Band digging in? I have your solution!!!!

So after 2+ years of trying to figure what the heck was going on. Working with people on r/abrathatfits, talking with people here, and even hiring a professional. I finally figured out what my issue was! I'm surprised no one ever suggested this as a possible issue.

Issues: My breasts would fall into the bottom of my cups, the wires would dig into my ribs (apparently because my breasts were pushing the cups out, like a hinge), which caused my IMF to slide down and my band to dig into my back.

The issue was my tissue was too soft to use a padded or lined up! The cup being a pre defined shape was my issue! I finally tried on a completely unlined unpadded bra and none of my issues happened! I was using light padding because I headlight 24/7 otherwise, and I didn't really want to use nipple covers. Welp, I have to compromise unless I want to be in pain or uncomfortable. So yeah!

I wish you all luck!

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Shared on Jan 05, 2025 Flag this


  • Tissue too soft, too dense/fibrous, too pendulous, too bottom heavy, too top heavy - lined cups and esp. foam/padded cups don't work for many. It's very common - that's why most bras in extended sizes are unlined.

    Surprisingly enough it wasn't until after breastfeeding and my boobs changed (softer, saggier/less dense/fibrous) that a molded cup actually fits me ok (unlined still fits better imo, and I prefer that look, but it was just interesting to be able to wear one without pain).

  • ritzyrunnergurl yes! I really wish someone had told me this SOONER! I don't know why this information that should be basic is completely ignored.

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