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Dear boobies...

Make up your mind already, would you?

So, when I started here (half a year ago? a bit more?) I was wearing ill-fitting 32D's, because I was unaware of the existence of smaller bands. I am narrow, my bones are narrow, my hands are narrow... but I have a curvy body type. This seems to be impossible in most people's minds.

Somewhere around that time, by body HAS decided to change: my waist became narrower, my bum more pronounced... and you, dear boobies, decided to hitch along and become larger. And now I'm thinking about some urban myth about a woman's body changing every 7 years or so; usually referring to becoming fatter. Yes, it was about 7 years ago that my body reached a first adult form, I suppose, I was only fully grown at age 19.

But, I stocked you up with a bunch of well fitting 28F's and we were quite happy. Despite being bigger, and me not being all too enthousiastic about that, you looked better in clothing than you ever did before.

But then, about 2 months ago, you decided you've had enough of it, and shrunk again, leaving me literally with nothing to put you in. I gave it a few weeks, thinking it might just be fluctuation, but no. So, I decided to hook you up with a few well-fitting 28E's. Right before my 'time' they didn't fit, fair enough... and last week they did fit. I haven't actually even worn most of them, as it takes time to order these things. And now, you're filling up my 28F's again. The Cleo Bella, fitting me when it arrived, gets nowhere near fitting you now.

Please make up your mind!! I can't keep on buying bras you know!

And now I still don't have a simple fitting nude and simple fitting black because you're still not fitting my Deco's properly!

Yours, TSC

Filed under Boob and body issues

Shared on Sep 21, 2013 Flag this


  • It's definitely not impossible to be slim or skinny with curves,drives me crazy when people think that even though I'm plus size.

    I feel your pain.I go though so many different body changes all the time now,I feel like I'm going through a second puberty!Well,I am 19,so maybe things are settling right now.I seem to fluctuate a lot throughout the month now,and am keeping track of it.I think I did just lose about an inch from my back,which means the two bras I was wearing on the last hooks no longer work. O.o I can easily puff up 3 inches during shark week,though,no matter what I do to try to prevent it.

    I think what I will do,is once I figure out bras that work well for me,is to buy them in three different sizes....current one,one down,and one up.Or bras with removable push up pads.That way I am covered until they do something really weird.lol

    I think it's good to hold onto bras a cup size up or down for several months as boobs like to do what they want.haha

    Trying to find a simple fitting nude is one of the struggles I have too.There are 5-7 I want to try that could work for this,but then none could work too,which is a scary thing.It's funny,cause when I was smaller and wearing the wrong size,all I could find and wear were white and nude and now it's hard to find those.

  • Yes, that may be an idea..

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