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No bra under a shirt, for everyday
Hi !
My body feels very confortable when I am braless. When I am alone, I am allways braless, no problems.
But, if I am not alone, I am terribly ashamed of showing my natural breast shape (long and pointy), I have allways being told to wear a bra since I had visible boobs to hide them... To give you an exemple : I wake up, I put on a bra under my PJ before everything else in the case someone who live with me see me ( friend or family).
But today I am 23, I can make my own choices, I think everybody should be allowed to dress as they want. In my case, I would like to have the choice to wear a bra or not, depending on my mood. I would like to be braless sometimes at school for exemple... I am tied to have to wear bras everyday...
I have already tried to stay braless a whole day (3 times) but I was shy, not comfortable in my body, with slouching shoulders etc....exactly like a teenager with no self confidence...
The only person with who I am more or less confortable braless is my boyfriend (I don't know what he thinks, I have never asked him, I just stay braless because it is the way I am more confortable, so he have to accept my body the way it is).
I am around the size 32d, so I have small breasts comparing to my frame and body, but they are visible under fitted clothes (fitted clothes are what I wear every day). For now, the best I have found if I want to be braless in public is wearing a big sweet shirt (winter helps), but it is not the best idea in the word, I feel bad in big shapeless clothes...
Maybe I am looking for a sort of in-between, something that don't feel like a bra, but round my breasts a bit. Maybe a lingerie tank with padded non wired cups ? A bralette ?
So, I need some advices...
Does some women around you stay braless ? what kind of clothes do they wear ? Do you find them "pretty enought" ? how old are they ?
if your body is confortable braless :
do you sometimes stay braless for work/school/going out with friends ? What do you wear ? Do you have negative comments ? What type of clothes looks good without a bra, what type of clothes looks bad without a bra ?
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I'm very pro do whatever you want with your body. I have some camisoles from Uniqlo that are comfortable, not terribly supportive, but they cover my puffy areola pretty well so I like it (that's the part of my breast that most concerns me). My roommate goes braless but she has quite large breasts in comparison to me (if I had to estimate, correctly fitted she would be 36G in Elomi or something), they wear a binder (I'm sure that's not what you want to do though).
The only woman around me that goes braless is a breast cancer survivor who had a double mastectomy, so no support or coverage needed (she has no desire to get breast forms or plastic surgery).
I very very rarely wear a bra at home, but I find the bouncing from walking and stuff pretty uncomfortable when I'm out.
At your size, I'm thinking the Coobie bra might be what you're looking for? With the padding in, it should give you a rounder shape, but not be constricting like a regular bra.
When I don't feel like wearing a bra, but have to wear something to go out, I wear a too-small Parfait By Affinitas Jeanie Plunge Molded Padded Bra (4801) that I took the wires out of.
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