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Rant!
Last night I went to the bar with my husband. I overheard some lady tell her husband that my boobs look the way they do because I'm wearing a pushup bra.
Now, there's nothing wrong with them or anything, but MY BOOBS LOOK THIS GOOD BECAUSE MY BRA IS THE RIGHT SIZE AND SHAPE.
It does piss me off that someone assumes I have to wear a pushup to have boobs that look good. No, I just have well fitted bras that actually suit my shape-with wires that go along my actual breast tissue. But no, so much misinformation out there. My boobs are 30H, which are nothing to sneeze at. They look just the same in unlined bras as they do in moulded because again, the unlined are the right size and shape.
It irks me that my boobs can't possibly be real based on their size (I've been asked if they were several times) or that if they are real, I MUST be wearing a pushup bra for them to look like that.
It took years for me to finally accept and love my boobs, and accept that I actually *don't* need help for them to look good (i.e. pushup bra)-I just needed to find the right shape for myself.
Anyway, rant over. I have always hated the saying "When you assume, you make an ass out of u and me" because really, when you assume, you're only making an ass out of yourself.
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I was once in the office with my boss and 2 coworkers - now, I had a VERY close and friendly relationship w the coworkers, and we would have had the same relationship with the boss but he tried to keep a little distance just to be professional . . but sometimes he missed the mark.
So we were in there working on something with a little banter, and somehow the topic of breast implants came up - with "why would anyone do that" and my boss said something about "ask Cara" . . . I stared at him a moment and declared that I certainly wouldn't know, I never WANTED to be this big!
Ok, if it hadn't been for the fact that I actually sorta had a crush on him (and it was clearly mutual), I probably would have been offended. He was married but he flirted with me a lot more when I was single (I got married, then was separated, then got back together while I worked in his department)
Still . . . people . . .
Should have said atleast i have some and all mine no plastic padding here.What bra you wear and style is all your decision and yours alone if they don't like find there own!
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