Not that curvy, nor that petite, but the username sounded catchy. 😅 My ideal bra is a Comexim ... 3HC in size 55J with reduced gore height, straps moved in, and as much increased depth as possible. 55K 3HC would have my ideal depth but I want the wires of a 55J. *Apologies in advance to the Comexim seamstresses…* Comexim plunges are my best fit but I like the half cup look better. I’m grateful to have found a formula for a perfectly fitting bra for the time being! I’m interested to try Ewa Michalak as well if I can get her to make a 55 band. Even though her 60 bands run small, I need a snug 26. I’m not particularly projected, but not particularly shallow either. Unsure about roots, but I don’t think I’m as short and narrow as I once thought. My ideal cup depth is 23 cm.

My measurements

Loose UB 25.25
Snug UB 24.5
Tight UB 23.5

Standing: 33.5
Leaning: 34.5 (35)
Lying 34

Calculator overestimates me at 26G; 26FF (55J Comexim) is where it’s at for me!

Still struggling to love my body, but I'm getting to a point of body neutrality!

Wouldn't say I'm not blessed in the chest, but wouldn't say I'm blessed in the chest either. A lot of people with my body type have much smaller breasts, so I guess I should be "lucky" in that respect. Not that small breasts are a bad thing / inferior / less attractive, but I've been brainwashed hard enough by society to think that bigger boobs = more feminine, and I am an extremely feminine individual. However, I will never ever experience having big boobs, or being a truly "curvy" woman. It just isn't in my DNA, nor my sharp bone structure. I could mimic the appearance of having big boobs by wearing something like a padded Ewa plunge with cookie pockets, but I'd just feel like I'm faking it. Because I know that when I take off the bra, I am left with my wide-set, teardrop, average projection 28E looking handfuls. I do not have big boobs. No way to fix it, and if I get implants, I will know they're fake too. And get really sick from BII.

Grass is always greener, I suppose!
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