Bra fitting help » Is this the right shape and cup size?
Freya » Expression High Apex (5494) » 32D 32:4
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Okay, so anyone who has seen some of my bra saga knows that I have had issues finding the right shape. I feel like this bra is just a bit big but know that if I go down a cup size to fit projection it will create the quad boob up higher. It also is much too big for my liking on my smaller side.
However, this is the unlined/padded bra that I feel like actually kinda fits my shape. Here is what I would most like help with but any comments are welcome.
1. I am convinced that depending on the brand I am a 32D, maybe a stretch to DD. I have tried over 30 bras at this point. My go to is a 34C basic maidenform bra because it is more comfortable than anything else (and cheap enough for me to justify keeping something that doesn't totally fit). So, all that said. Does the cup size seem to fit? I've worn bras too small my whole life so I'm not sure what a good fit actually is. Just looking at the cups. Too big or just right? (FYI I have pretty decent asymmetry)
2. Now that I have an unlined/padded bra that is close... any feedback on shape? I would say that I am a bit more on the shallow side and my breast tissue extends up quite high. The tissue is also rather broad though I feel like I am getting some tissue migration. Basically I am on the flatter side but my breasts cover a very wide area. Thoughts? Descriptive words? I feel like people have told me that I am all sorts of things which make sense at the time but now that you can sort of see a decently fitting bra I wanted to ask again.
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helpfulShortening the band and loosening the straps should make this a big winner. It is a great colour and shape with that high apex style. I have noticed that when folks are used to wearing a too-small bra, when they switch to a bra that fits better they can miss the over-flow of tissue that makes it look like breast o'bundance!
With the small side, options are living with it or sewing in a cookie.
Embrace the better fit and sleek silouette. If it is comfortable, I would branch out to other colours. That is the great thing about Freya is that they are not shy about new colourways every year and are fairly decent at keeping the fit fairly constant. You are getting some great bras in sizes that are easily available. Win-win!
Updated on April 2, 2021 Flag this
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helpfulmaybe the maidenform ur talking about comes in a 32D, some maidenform bras do.
does the cups of this freya cut into your armpit? does it hurt?
freya bands run large. so if it feels ok then i think ur go to go with this braUpdated on April 2, 2021 Flag this
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Unfortunately I haven't been able to find the maidenform in a smaller band. I've been contemplating taking a needle and thread to to. The Freya feels fine in the band. I'm just not convinced that the cups fit... Again, I've always worn bras that are too small but it seems a bit big.
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Most maidenform bras come in 32D, you may not be able to find them in stores, but if you go to a Hanes/Maidenform outlet they will definately have them. Or you can order online from onehanesplace.com, herroom.com etc.
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helpfulThe cups don't look too big. Actually looks like a good fit! If it's comfortable this should be one good option for you.
I tend to have the same problem with bra straps, don't know why. The first thing I always do is to max out the straps. If the straps stretch out they will also curl up, which is no good.
Updated on April 6, 2021 Flag this
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I'm glad to hear you think so, and for your continued feedback. It really isn't comfortable.... but I think that is more an issue of not being used to bras that fit. I wish it came a half size smaller. It does bother me how much extra space there is on my smaller size. I think that I am going to grab an insert for the smaller size and see how that goes.
I hope that now that I have something that looks good I can find other options that are close and over time I can figure out what is fit and what is preference. But definitely a whole different world than my 34As!
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helpfulI too think the fit looks pretty good. Do you know about the scoop and swoop? You put on your bra and slide your hand in to the side of the boob and pull it all into the bra, this may help with you feeling it is too large for your smaller side. I can't really see that one side is smaller than the other in the photos though. If you like the bra I would definitely put it in the Win department. But don't get too focused on the perfect fit or you will never be happy! Alot of women end up going down a rabbit whole on finding the perfect bra and perfect fit and it really doesn't exist, just the best fit for your body in whats available for your size. 32D really offers you a wide variety of places to shop from. If you prefer nonpadded bras you may like Timpa, alot of us who think we are quite small chested like Timpa bras (deylo and wingsoflove on amazon offer very similar style bras). The little bra company may also be worth checking out for you, as you are on the end of their size range, but it is still available! Now that you know this one fits you decently you can try others from freya that may make you feel more comfortable for the time being, their padded half cups may make you feel more comfortable. Skarlett Minx, Natori and Calvin Klein are all great options in your size range (and this shape of bra as well). Though I do think with time if you continue to wear these better fitting bras you will end up going up in cup size, down in band size and your shape with slightly change. From looking at this bra I would say you have average-wide roots & average height roots as well but they are placed higher up on the chest.you also seem to be a bit more on the pointy/conical side. I also agree that your tissues seems more spread out than projected, but i do think that will likely change with time. I don't personally think you'll have too much issue fitting most bras.
Updated on November 1, 2021 Flag this
Thanks jazzypants . I already returned the bra as it was part of amazon wardrobe and if it fits I will buy it from a store I want to support (i.e. not Amazon). However, the straps were pretty much completely loosened. I have noticed that on most bras that I get I am just about maxing out the straps. I assume they will stretch a bit with wear though.
These larger sizes actually make me look like I have a lot more boob than my previous bras which has been hard to get used to. I've always considered myself pretty flat chested but a bra that (almost) fits is challenging that assumption.